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WHAT DO YOU WANT US TO TALK ABOUT AT ~MARRIAGE MONDAYS MINISTRY~? WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! 1/30/16
 ~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

 

As it is our mission at ~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ to save marriages through education and Godly council, we want to know the topics you are most interested in.  We have put together a list of some of the most common reasons why marriages end.  Help us serve you better by choosing from this list in order of importance to you.  You may also add to this list.

1          Marriage Infidelity/ unconfessed before or during the marriage
2          Communication breakdown in relationships
3          Physical, psychological or emotional abuse.  As an offender or defender.
4          Marital Financial issues
5          Sexual incompatibility/low or no sexual interest/turned off by attitudes…
6          Boredom in marriage.  Lack of interest and activities
7          Religious or cultural differences/unequally yoked.
8          Child-rearing issues
9          Addictions to drugs, pornography…
10        Difference in priorities and expectations
11        Loss of trust from uncovered deceptions, lies and secrets.
12        In-law meddling
13        Baby mama / baby daddy drama

 

You may inbox your suggestions or interests to: marriagemondaysministry@jcilmdc.com.  We are looking forward to hearing from you…

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

Keep Your Spouse Wanting You! 6/10/13
Keep Your Spouse Wanting You!  6/10/13

BOREDOM IN MARRIAGE!

KEEP YOUR SPOUSE WANTING MORE OF YOU! 

As one of the top reasons for disinterest in marriage, boredom can be a killer if it is allowed to take hold.  It is the responsibility of each spouse to keep themselves interesting to their spouse.  It is common in marriage with both men and women to fail to keep up the same appearance, attitude, behavior… that made them interesting to their spouse in the first place.  Whatever you did to get the attention of your spouse, that’s what you must do to keep them interested.

KEEP YOUR SPOUSE WANTING MORE OF YOU!

Amos!

BOREDOM IN MARRIAGE! 6/4/13
BOREDOM IN MARRIAGE!  6/4/13

BOREDOM IN MARRIAGE!

A RISKY REASON FOR INFIDELITY.

One of the most damaging reasons why boredom occurs in marriage is that spouses allow themselves to become less attractive to their spouses.  My mother always said: “Whatever it took for you to get a woman, that’s what it will take to keep her and then some!” 

What am I saying?  I’m glad you asked!  1 Peter 4:10 "As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God."   Spouses must utilize their gifts of service to each other and take the time to ensure that they remain appealing and of great interest to each other.  Failure to do so will result in boredom and the possibility of extramarital activity.  It’s not right, but it’s reality!

Amos!

SEX IN MARRIAGE! STAY HOOKED! 5/23/13
SEX IN MARRIAGE!  STAY HOOKED! 5/23/13

SEX IN MARRIAGE!

STAY HOOKED!

Are you hooked onto your spouse?

If you are hooked onto your spouse, there would be no room for sexuality or sensuality outside of your relationship with your spouse.  Sex is a pleasure-bond that keeps a husband and wife close to each other.   Mark 10:9 What therefore God hath joined together (sexual bond), let not man put asunder.  Whatever is entertained that draws spouses away from each other, or makes them dependent on anything except their spouse, must be abandoned and expelled from their marriage! sexual behaviors such as internet chat rooms, fetishes, fantasies, pornography or imaginations that become habit forming, severs relationships.  Stay hooked!  The benefits are worth it!

Amos!

~Marriae Mondays Ministry~

SEX! ENJOY IT! IT IS A GIFT FROM GOD! 5/17/13
SEX!  ENJOY IT!  IT IS A GIFT FROM GOD! 5/17/13

SEX TALK IN MARRIAGE!

SEX, RELISH IT! ENJOY IT! IT'S A GIFT FROM GOD!
Sex is meant to be enjoyed and to be a regular part of marriage. It is one of the best tension and stress relievers.
Every part of a woman’s body is designed to satisfy a man, to give him comfort and pleasure as is every part of a man was designed to satisfy a woman sexually. 
Proverbs 5:19 A lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. Find your comfort and delight in each other. It is a recipe for great unity and oneness as God desires. 
Relish it! Enjoy it! It’s a gift from God!
Amos!

DON'T DEFILE YOUR BED! 5/13/13
DON'T DEFILE YOUR BED! 5/13/13

DON’T DEFILE YOUR BED!
God gave man the gift of sexual pleasure to be experienced and enjoyed with his wife and the wife with her husband. Any sexual experience indulged in outside the bounds of legal marriage and without your spouse, is considered immoral! 1 Corinthians 7:2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman wit
her own husband. Don’t cheat your spouse out of the pleasure they deserve from you by indulging in private acts such as viewing porn, which involves the likeness of others; masturbation which is selfish and lusting after others with sexual desires.. These are acts which leave out your spouse and should not be entertained!
Amos!

ENHANCE THE EXPERIENCE! TRY A LITTLE FOREPLAY! 5/11/13
ENHANCE THE EXPERIENCE!  TRY A LITTLE FOREPLAY! 5/11/13

~SEX IN MARRIAGE~

TRY A LITTLE FOREPLAY!

Most spouses would rather have a lover and not just a sex partner.  You can find a sex partner anywhere, but a lover that we all really need in our lives, is often hard to find!  Have some horderves before the main course.  Kiss each other!  Touch each other!   Complement each other!

Song of Solomon 1:22Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.  Then, you will be making love and not just having sex. 

Just sex can be a valuable part of the game of intimacy, but it shouldn’t be the full sum of it!

Don’t just dive into the goods, relish it!

 

Amos! 
LET HER KNOW HOW HER LOVE MAKES YOU FEEL! 5/10/13
LET HER KNOW HOW HER LOVE MAKES YOU FEEL! 5/10/13

SEX IN MARRIAGE

LET HER KNOW HOW HER LOVE MAKES YOU FEEL!

            Brothers; Compliment your spouse and cherish her love for you!

Often, all it takes for a woman to feel loved, is to hear the man in her life, tell her how he feels about her.  She wants to know that her love is important to him.  Compliment her love brothers, and make her know your heart, beyond the act of sex.  Song of Solomon 4:10 How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! How much better is thy love then wine!  And, the smell of thine ointments than all spices!

Quite often, it’s not what you do to a woman that puts her in the mood for love, but it’s what you say!  She wants to hear you say it too!

 

Amos! 
DON'T VIOLATE YOUR SPOUSE'S CONJUGAL RIGHTS! 5/6/13
DON'T VIOLATE YOUR SPOUSE'S CONJUGAL RIGHTS!  5/6/13

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE!
DON'T VIOLATE YOUR SPOUSE'S CONJUGAL RIGHTS!

Sex was designed by God to bring spouses closer together and not to keep them apart!

Too many spouses use the refusal and denial of sex with their spouse as a punishment for things their spouse has done to them.  This is no Godly!  To deny your spouse of their conjugal right is a violation of 1 Corinthians 7:3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.

Question?  How would you feel if you spouse rejected you when you were in the mood for sex?

Don’t deny your spouse of their conjugal rights!  You would not like it if they did it to you!

 

Amos! 
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE! 5/2/13
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE!  5/2/13
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FINANCIAL DIFFICULTIES IN MARRIAGE.. COUNT THE COST! 4/23/13
FINANCIAL DIFFICULTIES IN MARRIAGE..  COUNT THE COST!  4/23/13

FINANCIAL DIFFICULTIES IN MARRIAGE…

COUNT THE COST!   AGREE ON A BUDGET AND A SPENDING AND SAVINGS PLAN.

As one of the main causes of divorce, even among Christians, financial difficulties is an area that many couples find themselves in due to a lack of planning.  Impulsive buying and wasteful spending will dig a hole so deep that many couples will never be able to get out of.  Counting the cost and devising a budget is a great way to curtail this issue.  Luke 14:28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?

One should always count the cost and know in advance what price will be paid for any purchase.  No couple should make any purchase blindly.  Financial ruin is usually the result!

            Amos!
~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
CONTENTMENT IS A WISE ROAD TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM! 4/22/13
CONTENTMENT IS A WISE ROAD TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM!  4/22/13

FINANCIAL DISTRESS IN MARRIAGE!

CONTENTMENT IS A WISE ROAD TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM!

Anyone who refuses to be content with what God has provided is unwise!  Greater goals of gain and achievements should always be set, but we must always be satisfied with what God provided!  Philippians 4: 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.

Couples who fail to strategize and guard their finances, because they want more before they can afford more, are most like to come to financial ruin, if by chance they were able to accumulate any at all.  There are times when we all feel as though we deserve the best, but if we cannot afford the best without putting financial stress and strain on the entire family, then perhaps we should settle for what you can afford until we can afford better!

IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE MONEY FOR IT, YOU CAN’TR AFFORD IT!

Amos! 
~Marriage Mondays Ministry~
IS YOUR MARRIAGE IN FINANCIAL DISTRESS? 4/1/13
IS YOUR MARRIAGE IN FINANCIAL DISTRESS?  4/1/13

IS YOUR MARRIAGE IN FINANCIAL DISTRESS?

IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS IN FINANCIAL DISTRESS, just know that it is not the will of God!  God wants you to know that it is His will that your marriage be PROSPEROUS and HEALTHY, according to 3 John 1:2.  Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

Both spouses must come on one accord concerning their finances and work together to accomplish their goals with the husband as the head!  Any other approach is a certain recipe for disaster.

Husbands, know that you are the principal provider for your family.   1 Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, “he” hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel…

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COMMUNICATION NUGGET! YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY EVERYTHING YOU THINK OF, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY! 2/18/13
COMMUNICATION NUGGET!  YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY EVERYTHING YOU THINK OF, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY!  2/18/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

COMMUNICATION NUGGET

It is wise not to be such a talker.  Most times people esteem you as a wise person because you don’t always have so much to say.   And, when you do speak, it comes out harsh and foolish.  Especially when you get angry, you say things you should not say! Proverbs 17: 28Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent,

and discerning if he holds his tongue. Married people, learn to soothe each with what you say and don’t be so rash…  When you learn to hold your peace, God can fight your battles.  The battle is not yours anyway, it the Lord's.

Amos!

Pastor Sherrie Brownlee

For

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL PROSPER! 1/21/13
NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL PROSPER!  1/21/13
 ~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

Make this declaration and decree with me.

 

No weapon that the enemy forms against my marriage shall be able to prosper.  Isaiah 54:17 No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and this is their vindication from me," declares the LORD.  No plan, plot nor scheme shall work.  No act of sabotage or ill will by others to destroy my marriage shall work.  Every tongue that would dare to speak lies, causing conflict and issues between me and my spouse, I declare and decree it condemned in the name of Jesus.  The devil shall not have what God has blessed me with.  I DECLARE AND DECREE, unity, love, peace, happiness, success, prosperity and fruitfulness over my marriage now, in the mighty name of Jesus.

Amos!
~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO EVERY STRONG AND SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP! 2/4/13
COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO EVERY STRONG AND SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP!  2/4/13

 

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

 

NO COMMUNICATION, NO RELATION-SHIP!

Some people may think that “communication” in a marriage always means agreeing with each other. So when they hear things that they don’t want to hear, they say that they have communication problems.  Not so!!!!  If good communication means that you have to agree with someone, then whoever speaks first will rule and control your life. You would have no voice and no valid opinions.  Why should she have to hear him out if he doesn’t want to hear her out? Communication is when both parties can express themselves respectfully, without fear of retaliation and actually find a point of compromise that benefits them both.  For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned. (Matthew 12:37)  The best interest of the union must always be the focus, not selfish intent and desires…

In communication, we must always seek peace and make every effort to find a balance!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
HIS LOVE AND HER RESPECT, THE ANSWER TO EVERY STRUGGLING MARRIAGE! 1/14/13
HIS LOVE AND HER RESPECT, THE ANSWER TO EVERY STRUGGLING MARRIAGE!  1/14/13

Do you want your marriage to last?  There is only one way!

Love and Respect!!!

Ephesians 5: 22Wives, be subject to your own husbands…

   Ephesians 5: 25Husbands, love your wives…

Love and respect is the cure.  If any of these is missing from your marriage, you do not have a marriage!

Any man who thinks he can fail to love his wife and still have a marriage, is sadly mistaken.  Her body might still be there, but her heart is long gone. 

Any woman who thinks she can disrespect her husband and still have a marriage, she is sadly mistaken.  His body might be there, but his heart is far from her.

Selfishness and the rejection of God’s law of oneness in marriage is the culprit here.  Submit to the laws of marriage and yours will flourish.  Reject them and your marriage will die.

There is no other way..

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

Amos! 
INTIMACY AND COMPANIONSHIP! 1/9/13
INTIMACY AND COMPANIONSHIP!  1/9/13
 What the word says about marriage.
Intimacy & companionship.

Genesis 2:18 18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
It is obvious here that it did not sit well with God, knowing that Adam was alone…
Genesis 2:21-25
21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made He a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man”.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
This is clearly the institution of the first wedding by God Himself. From this text, we can be certain that marriage is a product of God’s unwillingness to cause a man to be alone. As a result, He formed the woman that was suitable for him and brought them to together as husband and wife. There are two elements that stand out in this text, intimacy and companionship. These are God’s ideas and any marriage without them, is void of God’s purpose and intent for marriage, out of which He expects the Godly seed He spoke of in Malachi 2:15 …That He might seek Godly seed…
Think on these things!
Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~
GO AHEAD, SHARE THE LOVE YOU HAVE INSIDE! 1/16/13
GO AHEAD, SHARE THE LOVE YOU HAVE INSIDE!  1/16/13

Go ahead and share your love with your husband/wife, even if you don’t get it back immediately in return.  Keep nourishing it until it blossoms.  True love may lose its way sometimes, but it will always find its way back home.  1 Corinthians 13:8 True love never fails…!  IT TAKES TWO!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
BACK OFF SATAN, YOU'RE MESSING WITH THE WRONG MARRIAGE! 2/1/13
BACK OFF SATAN, YOU'RE MESSING WITH THE WRONG MARRIAGE!  2/1/13
 ~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

 

A PRAYER AGAINST THE ENEMY OF MARRIAGE!

BACK OFF SATAN!!  YOU’RE MESSING WITH THE WRONG MARRIAGE!

In the name of JESUS, we defy the thief and robber of the gift of marriage that God has given to the men and women of His kingdom. We subdue every assassin and pronounce a death sentence upon every demonic agent assigned to the destruction of God ordained marriages.  Right now, we disallow the infectious disease of divorce form infiltrating the boundary of God ordained marriages. Mark 10:9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

 

Satan, we speak that you will not violate God’s holy ordinance of matrimony.  The bed shall remain undefiled and God ordained marriages shall maintain honor and sacredness!  Your vicious assaults of discord will not prevail!  We speak paralysis upon every advancement that the enemy would dare to make against marriages.  The covenant shall not be broken and the laws of marriage shall be held in high esteem.  We vanquish right now, the demons of disrespect and resistance to headship and abuse in every form!

 

We rebuke the spirit of anger and rage and silence the voice of ill-used words of insults and treachery that the enemy is using spouses to perpetrate against God and each other. We take back by force, every broken, distressed and exhausted marriage and we speak restoration in the name of JESUS!  The devil is defeated and God is glorified.  In the name of JESUS, amen.

THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!!!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

Agape!

YOU CAN'T BLESS AND CURES OR BE SWEET AND SOUR WITH THE SAME TONGUE!!! 2/11/13
YOU CAN'T BLESS AND CURES OR BE SWEET AND SOUR WITH THE SAME TONGUE!!!  2/11/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

How to Communicate in a Marriage

YOU CAN’T BLESS AND CURES OR BE SWEET AND SOUR WITH THE SAME TONGUE!!!

James 3: 9-10- 9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. 10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.  People of God learn to train your spirit when you are angry and when you are happy because, the tongue can no man tame.  Only God can.  When you have the spirit of God, whatever is in your heart comes out of your mouth.  Ladies, you want to curse your mate out because he didn’t do something you asked him to do and then you come to church angry and don’t repent and lift up your filthy hands and praise God with your dirty mouth?  The bible says; these things should not be!  Men, let God train you also because you can call women some horrible things also.   You are not exempt.   I speak to the ladies because, more ladies come to church than men nowadays. In your marriage, learn to be sweet because BOTH sweet and bitter should not be in your mouth.

You might be the apple of his eyes, but what  man wants a sour apple?

By: Pastor Sherrie Brownlee

For ~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
SELF-CONTROL IS THE KEY! WATCH YOUR TONGUE! 2/13/13
SELF-CONTROL IS THE KEY!  WATCH YOUR TONGUE!  2/13/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE

Proverbs 15:2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.- Married people, just know that your words and how you respond to your mate can make all the difference. The bible says a soft answer turns away anger, but harsh words stirs up anger and when you stir up something, it hard to un-stir it.  So, be wise and speak right the first time and don’t be a foolish woman or man with foolish talking.  Many a marriages have been destroyed because of it.   Keep a right spirit and you can go a long way in your marriage.   Self-control is the key!

WATCH HOW YOU SPEAK TO YOUR SPOUSE, NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAID OR DID TO HURT AND AGGRIVATE YOU!

Amos!

BY: Pastor Sherrie Brownlee

for

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
A WORD FROM THE LORD! GOD IS SILENCING THE TONGUE OF THE SEED SOWERS OF DISCORD IN YOUR MARRIAGE! 2/17/13
A WORD FROM THE LORD!  GOD IS SILENCING THE TONGUE OF THE SEED SOWERS OF DISCORD IN YOUR MARRIAGE!  2/17/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

A WORD FROM THE LORD!

The recent stress and tension in your marriage, based on outside interference is being resolved.  God is shutting down and silencing the tongue of the sowers of discord against your marriage.  No weapon formed shall prosper… (Isaiah 54:17) God is ministering judgment now against the evil heart and jealous mind of your so called advisor.  Priest and Prophet, I, The Lord am turning the heart of your woman of virtue back to you.  Woman of virtue, I, The Lord am turning the heart of your Priest and Prophet back to you now!  What I have joined together, no man nor woman shall be able to separate.  I am reversing the damage and rekindling the flame of your love.  Hear the word of The Lord!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

YOU MUST BE HEARD! SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE!! 2/20/13
YOU MUST BE HEARD!  SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE!!  2/20/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN

This is one of the most powerful weapons of demise over marriage that the enemy will employ.  Often, it is not what is said between spouses that triggers a breakdown, but equally as tragic, it is the failure and the resistance to open communication that is the culprit.  Often spouses are reluctant to confront for fear of an uproar by the other spouse.

If you are in a marriage where you cannot confront the issues for fear of retaliation or an uproar, your marriage is on a certain track for derailment.

Ephesians 4:25-27

25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor(spouse), for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”[a]: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold.

When you love someone, you give them the respect to be heard, just as you want to be heard, without infringing on their right in the marriage to be heard.  Otherwise, there will be no resolution and the beginning of bitterness, stemming from hurt will commence. 

What am I saying???  RESPECT YOR MATE AND ACCEPT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO COMMUNICATE TRUOTHFULLY AND WITHOUT AN OUTBURST OF WAR!

SPEAK THE TRUTH IN LOVE!!!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
BOTHERS AND SISTERS, DON'T PLAY THE FOOL IN YOUR MARRIAGE! 2/23/13

Brothers and sisters, stop the foolishness right now!!!

For the brothers out there that are treating your good thing, your help-mete, your blessing, your wife treacherously, she is not your doormat, not your slave! God says to tell you to STOP it right now before you lose the best thing that has ever happened to you! You better start loving her again like you did when you married her!! God is watching and you will not get away with such infractions against your marriage covenant. Put down the ego before it’s too late! Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; REGARDLESS!!!!!!

For the sisters, too caught up in yourself and the modern woman idea to realize the evil you are committing against your Boaz, the man of God that He placed in your life, as your head, check yourself right now! Stop disrespecting him and disregarding his headship over you. Submission is not an option, it’s your responsibility! Stop being the reason for dysfunction in your family. God will not hold you GUILTLESS. Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord!!!!

 

Finally, a messed up marriage is a result of selfishness and disobedience to the will of God and the laws of marriage. If you don’t plan to follow the rules and laws of marriage, DON’T GET MARRIED! If you disrespect and disregard God’s holy ordinance and covenant, the penalty will be yours to pay. RESPECT YOUR MARRIAGE!

Agape! 
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NO MORE FINANCIAL DISTRESS IN YOUR MARRIAGE. 4/2/15

Today, I come against the demon of marital tension and unrest due to financial distress. I command the cycle to be destroyed and I command your money to be loosed from the hands of the adversary. May your financial situation that has been causing friction and unrest in your marriage be shifted in your favor, RIGHT NOW, in the name of Jesus. Amos!
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MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND SELFISH EXPECTATIONS IN MARRIAGE! 9/25/13

MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND EXPECTATIONS IN MARRIAGE!

SOMETHING FOR THE FATHERS>>
Parents are exhorted to bring up their children in the fear and admonition of the Lord. In Deuteronomy 6:6-7a the Lord commands: “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children.” Fathers in particular are commanded to instruct their children in the ways of the Lord: “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).

This last verse contains an important contrast: exasperating children vs. bringing them up in the instruction of the Lord. Yes, children are supposed to obey their parents (vv. 1-3). “But fathers,” Paul says, “do not make this difficult for them!” (v. 4). Godly fathers are not dictators who need to prove their authority by constantly giving orders and commands and making new rules. Instead, godly fathers focus on helping their children to understand who the Lord is – they want their children to know that God’s ways are good ways and that his commands are for their good.
Failure to observe this priority can certainly cause dangerous issues between husband and wife...
Amos!

MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND SELFISH EXPECTATIONS! 9/9/13
MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND SELFISH EXPECTATIONS!  9/9/13

MISPLACED PRIORITIES AND SELFISH EXPECTATIONS.
These represent two of the greatest tragedies that marriages face on a daily basis. When ever spouses fail to put God first in a Christian marriage, this is a recipe for certain disaster. Deuteronomy 6:5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.
Any spouse who wants to be put before God and be loved more that God is in error. Never sacrifice your responsibility to God to please your spouse. God will get no honor out of your marriage. (Something to think about).
Amos...

PORN IS THE ENEMY OF INTIMACY AND UNITY IN MARRIAGE! 8/26/13
PORN IS THE ENEMY OF INTIMACY AND UNITY IN MARRIAGE!  8/26/13

Don't allow porn to rob you of the intimacy and unity between spouses. It has no place in a godly marriage. It will divert your focus away from your spouse and force you to share it with the objects depicted in the videos and magazines of porn! Take a lesson from David: Psalm 119:37 Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways.
Recognize porn for the worthlessness it is.
Amos!
Marriage Mondays Ministry ~

 

UNEQUALLY YOKED MARRIAGE? SPOUSES MUST AGREE! 7/25/13
UNEQUALLY YOKED MARRIAGE?  SPOUSES MUST AGREE!  7/25/13

UNEQUALLY YOKED IN MARRIAGE.
SPOUSES MUST AGREE!
Amos 3:3 Asks us a question: Can two walk together, except they be agreed ? We all know the answer to that. Even if they did, one would be left feeling unfulfilled, having to make a sacrifice they don't want to make and end up blaming the other one for their unhappiness. We must know that when we marry others who do not share the same beliefs and moral convictions as we do, it is a recipe for certain disaster. 
Amos!

Marriage Mondays Ministry ~

ARE YOU UNEQUALLY YOKED? 7/10/13

ARE YOU UNEQUALLY YOKED?

One of the worst distractions and dysfunctions in a marriage is being unequally yoked! For a Christian to enter into a partnership with an unbeliever is to court disaster. They have opposite worldviews and morals, and business decisions that must be made daily will reflect one or the other. For the relationship to work, one or the other must abandon his moral center and move toward that of the other. Too often it is the believer who finds himself pressured to leave his/her Christian principles behind for the sake of a spouse who does not share his/her faith. Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed? It is hard enough in a marriage where both spouses are Christians, just imagine the ones where they come from opposite sides of the track! Be not unequally yoked! Amos!!

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION IN MARRIAGE! 5/2/13
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION IN MARRIAGE! 5/2/13

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE!

 

This month, we will be looking at several different areas of sexual dysfunction in marriage...

1 Sexual incompatibility...

2 Low or no sexual interest...

3 Turned off by attitudes…

4 Maybe he/she is really gay or bi-sexual.

5 Rape??????...

All of these subtopics are real issues that married couples face or refuse to face and as a result, the marriage ends in divorce or separation.

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled:

Amos! 
VERBAL ABUSE IS A FORM OF OPPRESSION! 3/14/13
VERBAL ABUSE IS A FORM OF OPPRESSION! 3/14/13

 

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE IS A FORM OF OPPRESSION!

Keeping in mind that verbal abuse happens whenever words are misused to hurt or to control someone!  This is oppression!   Contrary to popular claim, women are equally guilty of being verbal abusers and oppressors of their husbands as men are to their wives.  Name calling and magnifying the faults and imperfections of each other to belittle and control, is oppression!  But, be comforted in knowing that God is watching and listening and your oppressors will not go free!  Psalms 9:9 - The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.  Don’t take matters into your own hands!  Take it to God, He is our refuge.

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

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VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE! THE TONGUE OF A SERPENT! 3/11/13
VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE!  THE TONGUE OF A SERPENT!  3/11/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE!

That old fable. Spoken by so many; “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never harm me” …  It’s a lie!!!!!!!  Words hurt and can kill like a weapon of murder.  Spouses who verbally abuse each other are like venomous serpents, striking with deadly precision!  “They spit poison like deadly snakes; they are like cobras that refuse to listen.” Psalm 58:4.  One of the secrets to avoid becoming angry and bitter to the point of verbal abuse, is to not be so sensitive to things and to treat others the way we want to be treated.  SERIOUSLY!  The verbal abuse must stop!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

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VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE PART 3! 3/8/13
VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE PART 3!  3/8/13
VERBAS ABUSE IN MARRIAGE PART 3!
My brothers and sisters, don't allow the enemy to trick you into verbally abusing your spouse. This is NOT just something that a man does to his wife in anger, but wives to it their husbands as well. It takes two in every situation. Honor your covenant and abandon the verbal abuse at once!
Amos! 
VERBAL ABUSERS IN MARRIAGE! 3/6/13
VERBAL ABUSERS IN MARRIAGE!  3/6/13

VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE.

VERBAL ABUSERS IN MARRIAGE HAVE IDENTITY AND SELFWOTH ISSUES!

They possess an overwhelming need to defend themselves.  Their own insecurities of themselves usually dictate their verbal attacks, which they often think are in defense of something that really doesn’t exist.  They are overly sensitive and have a tendency to react irrationally, rather than to respond appropriately! 

 2 Timothy 3:1-5 “They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God . . . and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred. They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control; they will be cruel and have no interest in what is good. They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God They will act as if they are religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. You must stay away from people like that.”

To say the least, they think more highly of themselves than they ought to.  This is the main culprit!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

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WHATEVER YOU SAY, COMES OUT FROM YOUR HEART! 3/5/13
WHATEVER YOU SAY, COMES OUT FROM YOUR HEART!  3/5/13

VEREBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE

IF YOU SAID IT, IT’S BECAUSE IT’S IN YOUR HEART!

One of the best ways to prevent verbal spousal abuse, it to avoid confrontation while angry.  We tend to say some of the most hurtful things to our spouses when we are angry.

It pays to guard and sift the content of our hearts because, whatever is in our hearts will come out of our mouth.   Matthew 15: 18 But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man.  This is why it is so important to resolve issues in a timely manner to prevent buildup of hurt and pain that are often become bitterness.  Whenever bitterness is in the works, verbal abuse will always be a dominant expression.  The mouth cannot lie about the condition of the heart, because it is the heart that controls the mouth!  If you can control what enters your heart, then you will be have control over what leaves your mouth!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE IS AS A BITE FROM A SNAKE! 3/4/13
VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE IS AS A BITE FROM A SNAKE!  3/4/13

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~
VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE IS AS A BITE FROM A SNAKE!

Whispering insults with monotone or a calm and gentle expressions, does not exempt you from the law of verbal abuse, just because you were not as loud and as blatant as your spouse.  Two wrongs don’t make a right!  Folks always say, “It’s not what you say, but it’s how you say it!”  I beg to differ!!!!  “Their tongues sting like a snake; the poison of a viper drips from their lips.” Psalm 140:3.  Once you use your tongue to say something hurtful, the damage is done!   It is irrelevant what tone or volume is used to tell someone that they are ugly that can be perceived as nice.  In spite of how it was said, it was still said and is therefore recognized as abuse.  Once you use your tongue to speak any word or phrase to hurt your spouse, the damage has already been done!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
BE A BUILDER WITH YOUR WORDS AND NOT A DESTROYER OF YOUR SPOUSE! 3/25/13
BE A BUILDER WITH YOUR WORDS AND NOT A DESTROYER OF YOUR SPOUSE!  3/25/13
 VERBAL ABUSE IN MARRIAGE!
CHOOSE TO BE A BUILDER AND NOT A DESTROYER WITH YOUR WORDS TO YOUR SPOUSE!

In marriage today, I doubt strongly that there is a single couple who can honestly say that they have never spoken out of turn to each other.  But, when we love someone, we are quick to repent and get back on the right track.  We cannot develop a habit and eventually a lifestyle of verbally abusive patterns and behaviors and do nothing about it.

As followers of Christ we are encouraged to consider everything we say to one another, whether it stands the test of being for the benefit of the hearer - verbal abuse surely does not qualify:  Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

Watch what you say to your spouse. CHOOSE TO BE A BUILDER WITH YOUR WORDS TO YOUR SPOUSE AND NOT A DESTROYER!  Often, it’s not how the wrong was said, but the fact that it was said all-together…

Amos!
~Marriage Mondays Ministry~

ARE YOU A SPOUSAL ABUSER? LET'S FIND OUT! 3/1/13
ARE YOU A SPOUSAL ABUSER? LET'S FIND OUT!  3/1/13


All married folks should be able to admit that at some point in thier marriage that they have taken the role of abuser.  Abuse is not always physical, quite often is verbal!
James 1:19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
Anything or word that is misused against our spouse is ABUSE!  How it is said or done is irrelevant, once misuse is involved!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Ministry~ 
SEX IS FOR MORE THAT JUST HAVING BABIES! 5/27/13
SEX IS FOR MORE THAT JUST HAVING BABIES! 5/27/13

SEX IS FOR MORE THAN JUST HAVING BABIES!

Contrary to what some believe, sex is for more than just being procreative!  It is also for fun and pleasure.   God’s command, "Be fruitful and multiply" (Gen 1:28), is a command to be sexual. When we obey it, we fulfill God’s purpose by becoming one flesh and producing children. So sex in marriage is both recreational and procreative.  This oneness of intimate fellowship between a man and a woman is expressed in Genesis 2:24 by the phrase "one flesh:" "Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh.  Sex may be meant for reproduction, but it is certainly meant for pleasure.  Enjoy it!

Amos!

LET YOUR MAN KNOW THAT HE IS BETTER THAN ALL THE REST! 5/20/13
LET YOUR MAN KNOW THAT HE IS BETTER THAN ALL THE REST!  5/20/13

SEX TALK IN MARRIAGE!

SISTERS, LET YOUR MAN KNOW THAT HE IS BETTER THAN ALL THE REST!

Equally as important as sexual intercourse between spouses, LOVE TALK is a great form of intimacy that needs to be explored.  And, just as women like to be told nice things about themselves and how their husbands feel about them, men like to hear and feel their wives stroke their ego as well…

SONG OF SOLOMON 2:3, "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men.  In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."

Sisters, let your man know; that to you, he is better than all the rest!  Trust me, the reward can be very sweet!

Amos!

~Marriage Mondays Miniatry~


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