THE BURDEN BEARER WANTS TO RESCUE YOU FROM YOURSELF!  
STOP TRYING TO BEAR BURDENS AND CONCERNS that were never meant for you!  Taking stuff personally and always allowing things to get to you, is not only an emotional weight, but a spiritual weight too.  Just let it go!  Release yourself from this bondage of emotion torture.  "Blessed be the Lord, who daily bears our burden, The God who is our salvation." (Psalm 68:19)  Let God bear your burdens!!!!!! Decide now to release it all to God.  Once you do, the grip and hold that stuff have on you will be released too.  Hear the word of The Lord!